At some point in our everyday lives we sometimes feel like thing can’t happen without us.  My way is the only way and if it can’t go my way then it won’t go right the plan will fail completely. I have been in situations where people don’t want to support because they didn’t have input in it.  To some it is all about recognition and fame.  I believe in everyone having a part and every idea counts.  I had a situation once where someone quit in the middle of the program because they didn’t gain the respect or the spotlight that they were hoping to get.  They quit because they didn’t realize they had committed to something else before this commitment.  I was a little disappointed but knew I had to go on as planned because I did not want to let the children down.  The program turned out beautifully and received many raved reviews.  From this another offer came through for me to do another program with another group.  The people that relieved themselves and decided they had something else to do came to me later and said they wanted to come back and help with what I was doing.  At this point, I did not say no to her but I did say to her, I need reliable and committed people that can work as a team.  The point that I am trying to say is you should never feel like you are so great and above others because it is not all about you.  Every on has an important role and no role is greater than the other is because when putting a puzzle together you need all parts to make it complete.  Don’t be a board but be a part of what makes the board complete.  In order to make a difference in others we have to strive on making a difference in ourselves daily.  Take the time to evaluate yourself and the things you do and say to others.  A reward can be the outcome of something it don’t always have to be monetary, trophy, or being recognition before a large audience. It is all about the individuals involved as to how they feel and the impact that was made to someone's life.