I stole this from a reply i found on a Tony Robbins site where i was snooping tonight     So at the end here´s a kind definition for a relationship

Authentic meeting

I would like to love you, without restricting you,
I would like to esteem you, without evaluating you,
I would like take you seriously without define you on something
I would like to come to you, without suggest me upon you,
I would like to invite you, without placing demands on you,
I would like to give you, without attaching expectations to it,
I would like to say goodbye, without having missed essential,
I would like to confide my feelings, without making you responsible for it,
I would like to inform you without teaching you, help you without affront you
I would like to care for you, without changing you
I would like to enjoy you, just as you are.
If I can get the same from you,
then we can really meet
and us mutually enrich.

(Author unknown)

I remember reading somewhere-- maybe Deepok Chopra and how when we have children, we fall in love with them, we want to be with them all the time, we miss them when they are away from us-- this is how I feel for my children... I don’t just love them, I am in love with them... and I wish I only knew HOW to love like this-- Better.

But I am weak and selfish.  I forget.  I get stressed, caught up with what I am doing sometimes, I lose perspective of how much love is here for my children and how much they deserve every ounce that I have-- what better gift could I possibly ever have for them?

oh yeah, the car..